Parrots can be wonderful pets for children, offering companionship, fun interactions, and valuable lessons in responsibility. However, not all parrot species are equally suited for young owners. Conures, Cockatiels, and Lovebirds are three popular choices, each with its own unique traits.
In this guide, we’ll compare these three birds in terms of personality, care requirements, and how well they fit into a child-friendly household. CHECK OUT the free resources including a checklist for parrot ownershiphttps://www.avianconservationkc.com/free-resources
Comparison Table: Conures vs. Cockatiels vs. Lovebirds
Feature | Conures 🦜 | Cockatiels 🎵 | Lovebirds 💕 |
Size | Medium (10-13 inches) | Small (12-14 inches) | Small (5-7 inches) |
Lifespan | 15-25 years | 15-20 years | 10-15 years |
Noise Level | Loud & playful | Moderate & whistly | Can be noisy, especially in pairs |
Talking Ability | Some mimic sounds, but not great talkers | Can whistle tunes, limited speech | Rarely talk, but chatter a lot |
Temperament | Energetic, cuddly, can be nippy | Gentle, affectionate, easy-going | Social, can be territorial, best in pairs |
Playfulness | Very playful, loves attention | Enjoys head scratches, playful | Loves toys and playing with mates |
Biting Tendency | Can be nippy if not trained | Rarely bites, more gentle | Can bite when upset, territorial |
Cage & Space Needs | Large cage, lots of toys & space | Moderate cage, needs out-of-cage time | Small cage okay, best in pairs |
Training Difficulty | Smart, trainable, but needs consistency | Easy to train, loves routine | Stubborn, can be harder to train |
Best for Kids? | Best for older kids (10+) | Best for younger kids (7+) | Best for kids with bird experience |
Deep Dive into Each Species

1. Conures: The Playful Clowns 🦜
Conures are known for their playful and affectionate nature. They love to interact, cuddle, and play, making them great companions for older children. However, they can be loud and have a tendency to nip if not properly trained.
Pros for Kids:
✔️ Very affectionate and love to cuddle.
✔️ Intelligent and can learn tricks.
✔️ Fun and active, always entertaining.
Cons for Kids:
❌ Can be loud, which might be too much for some families.
❌ Need a lot of attention and stimulation.
❌ Can be nippy if they don’t get their way.
💡 Best for: Older kids (10+) who can handle a playful but sometimes demanding bird.
2. Cockatiels: The Gentle & Friendly Companion 🎵

Cockatiels are one of the best birds for kids because of their gentle and friendly nature. They enjoy being around people, love head scratches, and can even whistle tunes.
Pros for Kids:
✔️ Gentle and affectionate, rarely bites.
✔️ Easy to train and enjoys routines.
✔️ Not as loud as conures but still vocal.
Cons for Kids:
❌ Need daily socialization to prevent loneliness.
❌ Dusty feathers (can be an issue for allergies).
❌ Can be clingy and get stressed if ignored.
💡 Best for: Younger kids (7+) who want a calm, friendly pet that enjoys companionship.
3. Lovebirds: The Social Sweethearts 💕

Lovebirds are small, colorful, and full of personality. They are highly social and do best in pairs. While they can be affectionate, they can also be territorial and stubborn, making them a bit more challenging for kids.
Pros for Kids:
✔️ Small and easy to care for.
✔️ Very playful and curious.
✔️ Fun to watch, especially in pairs.
Cons for Kids:
❌ Can be territorial and bite when scared.
❌ Bond strongly with their mate, sometimes ignoring humans.
❌ Harder to train compared to cockatiels or conures.
💡 Best for: Kids with bird experience who want a smaller, playful bird.
Which Bird is Best for Your Child?
If your child wants an active, playful bird that loves cuddles → Conure
If your child wants a gentle, friendly bird that whistles and enjoys pets → Cockatiel
If your child wants a small, social bird that is fun to watch → Lovebird
Final Tips for Kids and Parrot Ownership
✅ Supervise interactions – Kids should never be left alone with a bird, as both can get startled and react unexpectedly.✅ Teach gentle handling – Show kids how to offer their hand slowly and let the bird come to them.✅ Start with basic training – Simple commands like “Step up” help build trust.✅ Make sure the child is ready – Parrots require daily care, attention, and patience.
Final Thoughts
Parrots can be amazing companions for children, but it’s essential to choose the right species based on your child’s personality and your family’s lifestyle. Cockatiels are the most beginner-friendly, conures are fun but demanding, and lovebirds require social bonding. No matter the choice, proper care and patience will lead to a rewarding and lifelong friendship.
🐦 Which parrot do you think is best for kids? Let us know in the comments!
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